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It’s Not Me, It’s You Audiobook Summary

Two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers many individuals face on the road to a happy, loving, rewarding partnership.

Many of the clients who end up in our respective therapist offices thought they were doing relationships right—avoiding the white picket fence, focusing on careers and experiences over babies and legally-binding documents, choosing someone after they “found themselves” first. However, like clockwork, around their early to mid-thirties, these clients show up at our door. Why? For the first time, they realize that they dislike their relationship and are frustrated by their partner but know that another break-up won’t fix things. They recognize a pattern of relationship misery that has them finally looking in the mirror asking, how do you make a relationship last?

It took us many relationships, our own inner self journey (which we’re still on), therapy, therapy school, and helping thousands of people with their relationships, to learn to have better ones ourselves. Vanessa woke up at 31, after ending an engagement and moving to Los Angeles. John thought he woke up at 35 after his divorce. But he didn’t truly wake up until he was pushing 40. 

In It’s Not Me, It’s You, John and Vanessa dissect their own relationship to help readers figure out theirs: what their relationships were like in the past, what traumas they carried into the new relationship, and how they work on growing together to foster a healthy and long-term bond.

The surprising truth is falling in love is more about you than your partner. It’s more about challenge and growth than comfort and ease, and roots don’t grow from wishful thinking—they grow in the soil of communication, curiosity, patience, and understanding.

It’s Not Me, It’s You is for anyone looking for real advice on relationships that takes both sides into account and discusses relationships with the honesty and clarity we all need.

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It’s Not Me, It’s You Audiobook Narrator

John Kim is the narrator of It’s Not Me, It’s You audiobook that was written by John Kim

About the Author(s) of It’s Not Me, It’s You

John Kim is the author of It’s Not Me, It’s You

John Kim LMFT (The Angry Therapist) pioneered the online life coaching movement seven years ago, after going through a divorce which led to his total re-birth. He quickly built a devoted following of fans who loved the frank and authentic insights that he freely shared on social media. He pulled the curtain back and showed himself by practicing transparency and sharing his story something therapists are taught not to do. Kim became known as an unconventional therapist who worked out of the box by seeing clients at coffee shops, on hikes, in a CrossFit box. He built a coaching team of his own and launched a sister company called JRNI, creating a new way to help people help people and change the way we change. He lives in Los Angeles.

It’s Not Me, It’s You Full Details

NarratorJohn Kim
Length6 hours 43 minutes
AuthorJohn Kim
PublisherHarperAudio
Release dateSeptember 06, 2022
ISBN9780063206335

Subjects

According to HarperAudio, the Publisher of It’s Not Me, It’s You Audiobook, It’s Not Me, It’s You includes the following subjects: The BISAC Subject Code is Family & Relationships, Marriage

Additional info

The imprint is HarperAudio. It is supplied by HarperAudio. The ISBN-13 is 9780063206335.

Global Availability

This book is only available in the United States.

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